pigpen

Calling someone a piece of **** definately would killl the sex drive. For the love of God - what are men thinking?

My husband has never gone so far as to call me S*** but he has berated everything else in very cruel and subtle ways.

Me "good morning" him "this house looks like S***"

Yeah - go ahead and try to kiss me with that mouth.

I don't really have any advice.
I don't blame you a bit for peeking in on the competition. When the one you are with gives so little a new guy offering love and respect is very hard to resist. You did the right thing by not letting it get too far.

I dont know how you feel about the situation you are in. If I had enough income to try to raise my kids on my own I would be out the door fast. Name calling, insults and berating you are forms of abuse. Why are men like this?

How in the hell does "good moring" lead to criticism and insults?