Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - A guy friend lost...
View Single Post
Old 06-02-2012, 07:13 PM   #7 (permalink)
EleGirl
Forum Supporter
 
EleGirl's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: New Mexico
Posts: 10,560
Default Re: A guy friend lost...

Quote:
Originally Posted by Dollystanford View Post
she's threatened by your relationship and history with him and maybe thinks there was more to it than 'just friends' (maybe there was?)

your night out proved to her that you still think you can have that same relationship you had with him (if he's out with his girl why are you trying to dance with him all night)

he sounds like a decent man who is trying to show his girlfriend that there is nothing between you
People have different ideas about who to dance with, when.

I grew up in the diplomatic community. The social rule is that every man dances with every woman at the social gathering at least once during the evening/event. Dancing with others in there is fine.. just no lovey slow dance, or rubbing up against anyone but your spouse/date.

I really hate it when I'm out with people and each couple only dances with their husband/date. IMHO, it's rude. It's also petty for one spouse to get jealous over one or two dances. Now if a spouse dances a whole lot with someone other then their spouse/date, that's a problem too.
__________________
Surviving An Affair - What Are Plan A and Plan B? 180 for Betrayed Spouses


To Create A Passionate Marriage - Five Steps to Romantic Love His Needs, Her Needs Love Busters
EleGirl is online now   Reply With Quote