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Complexity · 06-02-2012, 07:41 PM

Ok, I just went over your story again. You have a very serious problem showing attention to your wife. I think you've downplayed just how important it is to her and I notice she's repeatedly warned you about it. Don't take this the wrong way, but I think you went into this marriage with a very immaturish attitude, not in relation to being a provider but to what you're expected of as a husband. I think alot women connote lack of attention with a lack of love and that has built up a lot of resentment and probably brought back memories of her ex.

06-02-2012, 07:41 PM	#36 (permalink)
Complexity Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: London Posts: 1,811	Re: My miserable story.. where to go from here? Ok, I just went over your story again. You have a very serious problem showing attention to your wife. I think you've downplayed just how important it is to her and I notice she's repeatedly warned you about it. Don't take this the wrong way, but I think you went into this marriage with a very immaturish attitude, not in relation to being a provider but to what you're expected of as a husband. I think alot women connote lack of attention with a lack of love and that has built up a lot of resentment and probably brought back memories of her ex.