| | Re: Have I been conned by my husband?
Perhaps a forensic accountant could determine if your money was diverted elsewhere by your hopefully STBXH rather than spent.
Not knowing the specifics of your finances or having a strong knowledge of Canadian law, I would suggest that you look into whether or not there is some recourse you can take, be it civil or criminal. If the money were diverted to another account, maybe you could recover some of it.
What a horrible situation for you, dear.