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GAsoccerman · 05-07-2008, 02:49 AM

well I am not here to throw you under the bus.

For the record, I am friends with several females that can tell me their personal issues, like one whose husband doesn't want to spend time with her, he has gotten very fat, etc. She is very Unhappy.....But i am her FRIEND, as well as his friend....So I know I will never cross that boundry, and I also tell my wife about every conversation, IE "gossip"

But I kept the friendship well with in bounds, and that was solely my decision?? why because I am very much in love with my wife and have no interest in anyone else, So I can understand your "it just happened" you let your guard down he saw it, he took the oppurtunity. It was a moment of weakness that spiralled out of control.

But anyway, you need to amke a decision, A decision of what truly makes you happy. You need to talk to your husband and see if you can repair your marriage, you do not have to devulge the affair, but you need to get some counselling and see if you can work it out, do some date nights.

As for "Bob" you were just a good time for him, a fling.....Forget bob. Get rid of Bob.

05-07-2008, 02:49 AM	#5 (permalink)
GAsoccerman Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 556	Re: Torn well I am not here to throw you under the bus. For the record, I am friends with several females that can tell me their personal issues, like one whose husband doesn't want to spend time with her, he has gotten very fat, etc. She is very Unhappy.....But i am her FRIEND, as well as his friend....So I know I will never cross that boundry, and I also tell my wife about every conversation, IE "gossip" But I kept the friendship well with in bounds, and that was solely my decision?? why because I am very much in love with my wife and have no interest in anyone else, So I can understand your "it just happened" you let your guard down he saw it, he took the oppurtunity. It was a moment of weakness that spiralled out of control. But anyway, you need to amke a decision, A decision of what truly makes you happy. You need to talk to your husband and see if you can repair your marriage, you do not have to devulge the affair, but you need to get some counselling and see if you can work it out, do some date nights. As for "Bob" you were just a good time for him, a fling.....Forget bob. Get rid of Bob.