pigpen

I rather suspect that all of your attentions were smothering.
Poems, love letters and who knows what all are wonderful - but a little goes a long way. After a while, when you hear too much of the same stuff one tends to not believe it. It all becomes so much of a chore that you have to react in a natural way. You cant react naturally because it has all been done before. Like a well rehersed play. It simply is no longer special.

Also, I mean this as kind observation. Please do not take offense. But constant attention can be a subtle way to control the behavior of the one you love. It is a bit like killing them with kindness.



I wont speculate if your girl friend is seeing someone else - and frankly, unless you ask her out right, you should not either. That is just adding fuel to the situation. No matter if you are right or wrong about it that kind of fuel turns into resentment. Resentment is damaging and is the hardest to repair. Dont let it brew. Ask her if she is, ask her why and be open to her answers.