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stav · 05-07-2008, 04:41 AM

Perhaps all the bad things that have happened to you before are colouring your thoughts on this too. Unless you know for sure that she is cheating on you, then give her the benefit of the doubt, and your trust.

I think pigpen has a point saying that maybe you are overdoing it with the attention. Things that have happened to you in the past, may be making you over compensate in the constant declaration of your love.

I also agree with Draconis, that a break is probably not going to help you solve your problems.. suggest setting a side a specific time when you can both freely and honestly discuss any issues you have. Let her know that you are willing to listen, and accept her point of view without judging.

A session with a professional counsellor may help get you both started.

05-07-2008, 04:41 AM	#9 (permalink)
stav Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: London Posts: 151	Re: Am I Crazy???? Perhaps all the bad things that have happened to you before are colouring your thoughts on this too. Unless you know for sure that she is cheating on you, then give her the benefit of the doubt, and your trust. I think pigpen has a point saying that maybe you are overdoing it with the attention. Things that have happened to you in the past, may be making you over compensate in the constant declaration of your love. I also agree with Draconis, that a break is probably not going to help you solve your problems.. suggest setting a side a specific time when you can both freely and honestly discuss any issues you have. Let her know that you are willing to listen, and accept her point of view without judging. A session with a professional counsellor may help get you both started.