Talk About Marriage - View Single Post

stav · 05-07-2008, 04:49 AM

Tell him you love him and you want to be close to him, and the only reason you are pushing him away is because you are scared of having another child right now.. ask him to give you a little more time to get your body and feelings back to normal (is contraception an issue btw?) and then perhaps you could both discuss again if it's time to try for another child, if you BOTH want one.

His insistance on another baby if you don't want one, is also part of the problem. It's not ALL you.

05-07-2008, 04:49 AM	#27 (permalink)
stav Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: London Posts: 151	Re: Repulsed Tell him you love him and you want to be close to him, and the only reason you are pushing him away is because you are scared of having another child right now.. ask him to give you a little more time to get your body and feelings back to normal (is contraception an issue btw?) and then perhaps you could both discuss again if it's time to try for another child, if you BOTH want one. His insistance on another baby if you don't want one, is also part of the problem. It's not ALL you.