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josie68 · 05-07-2008, 06:14 AM

Thank you all for your advice. Right now I don't have the strenghth to fight legally, and I worry that doing so would push him further away. I am 39, and we have no children. We dated only 9 months before being married. It was a whirlwind romance with proclaimations of being soul mates and so on. I am just so shocked that I didn't realize things had gotten so bad that he would seek comfort from another. Saturday before I left for my mothers I asked him to please not contact her anymore, and he said "to be honest, she wants nothing to do with any of this". It makes me wonder if he finally told her about me. I fight everyday to call her and ask her woman to woman to please not call him or take his calls, but I can't bring myself to do it for fear of what I might hear. I asked him if he was just sugar coating everything about trying only to give me false hope of a reconsiliation so I will go away quietly, or if he was serious about trying. He said he was serious about trying. Thats when he told me about her not wanting anything to do with this. I guess I will find out the truth when the next phone bill comes. I am an emotional wreck. I saw my Dr. yesterday and got some antidepressants and antianexity meds and a note for a week off work. I am a RN in surgery and can't seem to focus or stop crying long enough to provide what I would consider safe patient care. Thank you again for all your support and advise.

05-07-2008, 06:14 AM	#7 (permalink)
josie68 Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 2	Re: He wants me to move out while we try Thank you all for your advice. Right now I don't have the strenghth to fight legally, and I worry that doing so would push him further away. I am 39, and we have no children. We dated only 9 months before being married. It was a whirlwind romance with proclaimations of being soul mates and so on. I am just so shocked that I didn't realize things had gotten so bad that he would seek comfort from another. Saturday before I left for my mothers I asked him to please not contact her anymore, and he said "to be honest, she wants nothing to do with any of this". It makes me wonder if he finally told her about me. I fight everyday to call her and ask her woman to woman to please not call him or take his calls, but I can't bring myself to do it for fear of what I might hear. I asked him if he was just sugar coating everything about trying only to give me false hope of a reconsiliation so I will go away quietly, or if he was serious about trying. He said he was serious about trying. Thats when he told me about her not wanting anything to do with this. I guess I will find out the truth when the next phone bill comes. I am an emotional wreck. I saw my Dr. yesterday and got some antidepressants and antianexity meds and a note for a week off work. I am a RN in surgery and can't seem to focus or stop crying long enough to provide what I would consider safe patient care. Thank you again for all your support and advise.