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jane. · 08-17-2009, 02:06 PM

We teach people how to treat us. It's a very hard lesson to learn.

By letting him get away with murder, you're teaching him that he can treat you like cr*p and get away with it...repeatedly. You tell him you don't like something, and he does it anyway. And then he comes home to a nice dinner you made him.

I hope one day you can summon up enough strength to tell him that he needs to stop seeing this other woman and work on your marriage. Or that you can summon up enough strength to tell him it's time to divorce.

Until then, you're letting him have his cake and eat it, too.

08-17-2009, 02:06 PM	#5 (permalink)
jane. Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 32	Re: AM I Totaly Out Of My Mind? We teach people how to treat us. It's a very hard lesson to learn. By letting him get away with murder, you're teaching him that he can treat you like cr*p and get away with it...repeatedly. You tell him you don't like something, and he does it anyway. And then he comes home to a nice dinner you made him. I hope one day you can summon up enough strength to tell him that he needs to stop seeing this other woman and work on your marriage. Or that you can summon up enough strength to tell him it's time to divorce. Until then, you're letting him have his cake and eat it, too.