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Old 05-07-2008, 10:17 AM   #7 (permalink)
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It sounds to me like you and Bob are on different paths in this relationship. Since he has withdrawn from you when you told him you husband was suspicious and now just wants to be friends he is not likely to be looking at the relationship long term. Pardon my language but it sounds to me like he just wants a f---Buddy. Dump him and see if you and your husband of 15 years can recover the love. He may not have done everything correctly but he’s not perfect. No one is. You have a marriage that is much more important than your relationship with Bob.
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