| | Re: AM I Totaly Out Of My Mind?
I agree with Jane.
I also wanted to add that it sounds like *he* is the controlling one. He talks when he wants to and has made all of the plans as to when and how things are going to go. He shows up when he wants and leaves when he wants.
He is trying to place this blame all on you so that he will feel justified in his affair with this woman. You know deep down he has been having an affair with her. I bet he argues with you and then tells her his tale of woe.
He is disgusting. You should do whatever you need to in order to get out of this. As Jane said, he wants to have his cake and eat it too but he wants none of the responsibility for his actions.