Re: He wants me to move out while we try
You can talk to a paralegal or talk to a lawyer if need be. He can be responsible for your court cost depending on what state you live in. I am a 41, I was an OR nurse for over 13 years (don't bring your emotions to work or you need to take time off, this guy doesn't sound like he is worth losing your job for) my husband is 49 and when we have problems we work through them. We are both old enough not to run to the comfort of someone elses arms. We want to grow old together so therefore finding someone else to "talk to" for either of us is not an option. You have serious issues and you need to talk to a professional that can help you with all your options. This means you need therapist, and a lawyer so that you can be okay and learn to handle this better. Falling apart at work isn't handling this at all. You are a big girl, stand tall and help yourself. If it is over, let it be over with dignity. I don't see him trying to work things out. Making someone leave their home is not my way of working through things. He may not be worth you tears.
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