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Old 05-07-2008, 11:42 AM   #11 (permalink)
swedish
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Default Re: need reassurance

If you are an idiot for staying, then so am I and all the others working through this sort of thing. You are only an idiot if you ignore it and let it continue...or I guess the more appropriate word is doormat. But to understand why it happened and work together to make sure you are back on track and make sure he knows you won't stand for it again is showing your strength and commitment and your ability to forgive because as humans, we all make mistakes. Regaining trust has been exhausting for me at times but it has gotten better over time.
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