Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - hi im new to this and need advice desperately

heatbrokenmom · 05-07-2008, 04:21 PM

we argue about everything and mainly it starts with one of his nasty comments about something involving me. And being the way I am I don't let him talk to me that way and give it back. We've been arguing a lot for some time now and I know that is a major problem in our relationship. Now he tells me that he doesn't feel the same for me and that all we do is fight all the time. I still love him very much and him leaving is tearing me apart. I believe that with counseling and help we can get back to being so in love again but he feels it's not going to happen.I think he's making a big irrational mistake and has not given this seperation enough time to really make sure this is right. What do I do now? My gut is telling me to hold on and give this time. I just don't believe that you can't fall back in love again.

05-07-2008, 04:21 PM	#8 (permalink)
heatbrokenmom Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 9	Re: hi im new to this and need advice desperately we argue about everything and mainly it starts with one of his nasty comments about something involving me. And being the way I am I don't let him talk to me that way and give it back. We've been arguing a lot for some time now and I know that is a major problem in our relationship. Now he tells me that he doesn't feel the same for me and that all we do is fight all the time. I still love him very much and him leaving is tearing me apart. I believe that with counseling and help we can get back to being so in love again but he feels it's not going to happen.I think he's making a big irrational mistake and has not given this seperation enough time to really make sure this is right. What do I do now? My gut is telling me to hold on and give this time. I just don't believe that you can't fall back in love again.