Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - hi im new to this and need advice desperately

happilymarried67 · 05-07-2008, 05:49 PM

I like what Shane said. Another thing I have implemented into a disagreement with my husband is - !!!I never bring up the past!!!, I deal with the moment issue and I deal with it by saying "I feel like this, when this happens" Instead of the "you" did something wrong. I have also learned to not beat a dead horse. If we could both be right on an opinion, I leave the issue after I state my point and he states his point. I try to see it from his angle, and my angle. There is always more than one way to handle a situation. As for your hubby, you have to give him space. If he isn't in love with you and wants out, you can't change him back, you can just look after you.

05-07-2008, 05:49 PM	#10 (permalink)
happilymarried67 Forum Supporter Join Date: May 2008 Location: Arizona, USA Posts: 127	Re: hi im new to this and need advice desperately I like what Shane said. Another thing I have implemented into a disagreement with my husband is - !!!I never bring up the past!!!, I deal with the moment issue and I deal with it by saying "I feel like this, when this happens" Instead of the "you" did something wrong. I have also learned to not beat a dead horse. If we could both be right on an opinion, I leave the issue after I state my point and he states his point. I try to see it from his angle, and my angle. There is always more than one way to handle a situation. As for your hubby, you have to give him space. If he isn't in love with you and wants out, you can't change him back, you can just look after you. __________________ "Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I need it most." --Anonymous