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pigpen · 05-07-2008, 06:31 PM

Chopblock - you decide what IS the most important thing. Yeah, for a lot of people and couples sex is very important. It is not so important to others. But if it is important to YOU and she is not talking to you or actively trying to figure out why she does not want sex - then you have more problems than sex.

I used to think a few months in a marriage was nothing to go sexless. And in the whole scheme of life a few months is really nothing. But not talking about it, not seeking answers is way more problematic and even if the sex comes back that other problem will still be there.
Lots of people are "perfectly good" but maybe they are not the right ones for us.

05-07-2008, 06:31 PM	#20 (permalink)
pigpen Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 32	Re: Almost sexless marriage Chopblock - you decide what IS the most important thing. Yeah, for a lot of people and couples sex is very important. It is not so important to others. But if it is important to YOU and she is not talking to you or actively trying to figure out why she does not want sex - then you have more problems than sex. I used to think a few months in a marriage was nothing to go sexless. And in the whole scheme of life a few months is really nothing. But not talking about it, not seeking answers is way more problematic and even if the sex comes back that other problem will still be there. Lots of people are "perfectly good" but maybe they are not the right ones for us.