heatbrokenmom

I agree I am very flustered because I think he is going all over the place and I can't keep up. I do want to keep my marriage because I love him very much and want him to be with me. I do care about what makes my kids happy but I'm also thinking about what I want too. I think that if I give this time, go to counseling and let things settle, then hopefully he will change his mind. I also think that he is very frustrated and overwhelmed and that the anger issues he has developed over the past years are something that he also needs to deal with. I say to myself, how can he be happy with me if he's not happy with himself? I just don't know.