Originally Posted by babyblues7

The thing is we have just had this talk like I said 2 wks ago. I was leaving, because of the very same reasons, he came and apologized and I stayed firm and said that I was still leaving that I would not take this anymore. However, after we talked a little bit, I decided that I should give it another chance. But then a week and a half later, which would be right now, I have found evidence that he is still doing it. Like I said I have given this guy ample time to redeem himself, and each time I feel more and more like a fool. I was so excited I thought we were gonna actually have a marriage. I was so happy that past week and I was convinced that he would honestly put an effort in. To my disappointment that didnt happen. I just dont trust the next time he says that he will try, that indeed he will try. I have also asked him to maybe go talk to someone to try and see if he does have a sexual addiction. He also views payper view porno when I am away. I am an attractive woman, and no not to my knowledge did he do this prior to marriage, but we did not live together, and I am not sure exactly what he did do. He comments a lot about sexual stuff, sometimes it makes me feel uncomfortable. I just dont know what to do. Im at the point now where I dont trust him at all or anything that he says.