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teenrap · 06-05-2012, 05:18 AM

Thanks a Lot for your advice. I'm ready to talk to her in any possible way. 3-4 days back she called me up , but i didn't pick her phone. Yesterday there was a conversation between us thru SMS's . She is willing to talk to me , i know. But how do i know, if this another game plan of her mother playing her.
I agree, i was rude, my behavior was rude, but this isn't stopping her from going according to her mother. How would i know, if and when i call her, her mother is behind her and listening to all of it ?

as for the counselling, i have already met a Councillor , he says i should bring my wife along , like you said. But how do i convince her for counselling ? There's a School friend of mine who is happily married and settled in australia. His wife is someone who genuinely feels bad for us , and has many a times helped us to solve our issues. But asking her again for a similar problem stops me , thinking that i might be asking for too much and why should i poke their life for my trouble.

I've literally given up on everything as far as talking to her is concerned.

I can't trust her anymore.

Should i take last chance to call her from my side ?

06-05-2012, 05:18 AM	#7 (permalink)
teenrap Registered User Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 7	Re: Troubled Marriage of 3 years Thanks a Lot for your advice. I'm ready to talk to her in any possible way. 3-4 days back she called me up , but i didn't pick her phone. Yesterday there was a conversation between us thru SMS's . She is willing to talk to me , i know. But how do i know, if this another game plan of her mother playing her. I agree, i was rude, my behavior was rude, but this isn't stopping her from going according to her mother. How would i know, if and when i call her, her mother is behind her and listening to all of it ? as for the counselling, i have already met a Councillor , he says i should bring my wife along , like you said. But how do i convince her for counselling ? There's a School friend of mine who is happily married and settled in australia. His wife is someone who genuinely feels bad for us , and has many a times helped us to solve our issues. But asking her again for a similar problem stops me , thinking that i might be asking for too much and why should i poke their life for my trouble. I've literally given up on everything as far as talking to her is concerned. I can't trust her anymore. Should i take last chance to call her from my side ?