Re: multiple problems
to add to Chops solid reply...
Do you want him seeing a "weak mother" who obey's her husband? or a strong woman?
As I said my father died when I was 1 year old, I grew up with a "weak mother" that became strong because she was thrusted into the life. Apparently my dad took care of everything.
But my mother kept it together and took care of us, I always viewed her as a strong woman and did what was right for her kids.
I view my wife as a strong person with a good career and I want my kids to see that, especially my daughter.
I want my kids to be strong independent people when they get older, do what is best for them.
Best way to lead is by example. If you are not happy, then leave, he will not change his ways.
If he makes it nasty, just be good to your son, Down the line your son will see what type of man he is and that you left to make life better for HIM.
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