| | Re: No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
Just so you know, in Not Just Friends Shirley Glass says that the one-sided obsession following the ending of an affair can be very, very powerful, almost more powerful than the affair itself. That is because no definitive rejection has occurred from HIM to her. Unfortunately, there is no "safe" way to get him to reject her as I'm sure you can see.
I wish I had more advice about ending one-sided obsessions. It is sadly something that crops up here on the forum now and then and there aren't any good answers except maintaining no contact.