berlinlife06

As a "recovering catholic" I say that religion sometimes is too much into people's heads that make things a lot more complicated than they should. If she is smart, it doesn't matter what religion, she should be able to understand that beliefs are just that, beliefs, and they can change with time and under many circumstances. If you loved her, and then discovered that she was not the fire of your life, then what made you discover that? Because I was very much in love, or at least I thought I was, until I met someone else and i really discover what it was to be in love... You are dealing with many things, and probably going to therapy will help you and your wife.