Re: Am I being really stupid here?
You are absolutely right Swedish. It is sacrificial, always thinking about your partner. It can be hard especially when your spouse is not returnig the favor, but I am a witness that small changes make a big difference. Coming on this site reminds me of that everytime I feel down and out and un connected. It does not last long, once I give, he always comes back ten fold. I don't do the toy thing because I think our sexual relationship is too fragile for that now. It's best to work on eachother first, incorporate things later.
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