Re: Wondering what to do...
Having been the other woman before. I know he cares for you but cheating is a symptom of a problem, to me it is like being anxious and binging and purging. (I know you think I am being weird) but it is the same having overcome an eating disorder I think cheating is a way to cope with problems instead of dealing with your marriage problems between the two of you. Food was my affair in the past when things got rough. I see that it is a pattern with him but I think marriage counselling could make a difference if he really wants to make a true commitment to you. If he is not willing to do this for you and your family than you need to kick him out and seek your own help in this matter to help get you through this with your kids. I also agree with draconis-he is leaving you for days, he's not really there when he's home, it could be just a matter of time till he is gone. I'm sorry that you are going through this.
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