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Originally Posted by Pit-of-my-stomach  little unclear about something, she met him on POF? So she was looking for some strange? You have to set up a profile to communicate with the people on POF. That takes real effort. It's a very clear premeditated decision to cheat. There is no 'I'm so niave' 'heat of the moment mistake', to that. |
She wasn't out there just looking for sex though. She was looking like most women do for an emotional connection, and she's never said she was naieve. I said she was naieve to think some magic man would come riding in on a white horse all shimmering, rather than a ****ing ********* on a worn out donkey. She knows what she did.. She's explained how she was feeling. In hindsight she is not proud, and in fact beyond shamed. It was a conscious decision for sure, one that if she ever makes again, someone else will have her life, but I do believe she learned from it. What I mean by naieve is that she doesn't really know men that well. We've been together since she was quite young.
