Originally Posted by Pit-of-my-stomach
little unclear about something, she met him on POF? So she was looking for some strange? You have to set up a profile to communicate with the people on POF. That takes real effort. It's a very clear premeditated decision to cheat. There is no 'I'm so niave' 'heat of the moment mistake', to that.
She wasn't out there just looking for sex though. She was looking like most women do for an emotional connection, and she's never said she was naieve. I said she was naieve to think some magic man would come riding in on a white horse all shimmering, rather than a ****ing ********* on a worn out donkey. She knows what she did.. She's explained how she was feeling. In hindsight she is not proud, and in fact beyond shamed. It was a conscious decision for sure, one that if she ever makes again, someone else will have her life, but I do believe she learned from it. What I mean by naieve is that she doesn't really know men that well. We've been together since she was quite young.