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Amplexor · 05-09-2008, 06:44 AM

Sweetp101

I won’t throw you under the bus but I can tell you that as long as you are involved with someone else your marriage has zero chances of recovering. You must end the affair and have no further contact with him. Only then will you begin to see your husband in a truer light. If you still care for him and don’t want to hurt him it shows that there is still something alive in your marriage for you. Continue counseling and try to help him see what you are needing in the relationship. Whether to tell him or not is completely up to you but you must end the relationship with the other man. You have broken a core trust in the marriage and the longer it goes on the harder it will be for you to recover your feelings and the more difficult it will be for him to forgive you if he ever finds out. Good luck and bless the two of you.

05-09-2008, 06:44 AM	#2 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 501	Re: Any suggestions!!! Sweetp101 I won’t throw you under the bus but I can tell you that as long as you are involved with someone else your marriage has zero chances of recovering. You must end the affair and have no further contact with him. Only then will you begin to see your husband in a truer light. If you still care for him and don’t want to hurt him it shows that there is still something alive in your marriage for you. Continue counseling and try to help him see what you are needing in the relationship. Whether to tell him or not is completely up to you but you must end the relationship with the other man. You have broken a core trust in the marriage and the longer it goes on the harder it will be for you to recover your feelings and the more difficult it will be for him to forgive you if he ever finds out. Good luck and bless the two of you. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.