Re: Need opinions
You are totally justified in your concerns. He is engaging in poor behavior in things that he knows hurt you and is not doing anything about it. Trust issues? You bet and you have plenty of reasons for it. He is the one creating these issues because of the lying and deceit. I won’t go into my standard rant on porn in a marriage but if one party’s actions hurt the other it must stop if the marriage is to be whole.. I’ll have to disagree with Drac on the lap dance here. I don’t believe it is harmless fun. Sexual intimacy is sexual intimacy no matter what the barrier may be between the genitals. Be it a pair of Dockers or a condom. I don’t see much difference here. Your husband is showing no respect for you or your marriage and in my opinion, based on your descriptions here it is just a matter of time before he has sex with someone else. If in fact that has not already happened. Seek counsel and spiritual support if you want your marriage to work. Sorry I can’t be more uplifting here but you asked for opinions. Best of luck to you.
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