Re: hi im new to this and need advice desperately
You can only deal with your actions. You both need councelling to help you with different options on how to deal with issues. If he is not willing to do this for the relationship then it isn't going to get better. Marriage is a partnership, and he will need to curb his twisted humor and you will have to learn to not lash out. It is a hard road but someone has to be the bigger person if you want your relationship surviving through this. As I said before if he is not willing, it isn't going to get better.
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