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sweetp101 · 05-09-2008, 10:45 AM

I understand what you all are saying. It is the affair that is keeping me at home. If it was not for the other man, I probably would be long gone.

If I leave I don't want him to think I left him for someone else. I just need a peace of mind. Before the affair I asked for a divorce. He would not do it. I asked for a separation. It lasted for a week. When he was gone, the kids and I were relaxed. When he is home, the tension is the house is terrible. We don't have any fun when hes there. Its as if he drains us. I just want me and the kids to be happy. With him I dont see that happening.

If he were to leave, swedish you are correct, it would be hard. I would have to adapt to my spending habits. But should finances keep me in an unhappy marriage? I'm at a lost. Damned if I do, damned if I dont.

Card1006 are you sure you are not my husband. I've also been married for 12 years also.

05-09-2008, 10:45 AM	#6 (permalink)
sweetp101 Forum Supporter Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 55	Re: Any suggestions!!! I understand what you all are saying. It is the affair that is keeping me at home. If it was not for the other man, I probably would be long gone. If I leave I don't want him to think I left him for someone else. I just need a peace of mind. Before the affair I asked for a divorce. He would not do it. I asked for a separation. It lasted for a week. When he was gone, the kids and I were relaxed. When he is home, the tension is the house is terrible. We don't have any fun when hes there. Its as if he drains us. I just want me and the kids to be happy. With him I dont see that happening. If he were to leave, swedish you are correct, it would be hard. I would have to adapt to my spending habits. But should finances keep me in an unhappy marriage? I'm at a lost. Damned if I do, damned if I dont. Card1006 are you sure you are not my husband. I've also been married for 12 years also.