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mrs. lady · 08-20-2009, 06:57 PM

Um, I don't know what that you are negative he is positive crap is.

It sounds like you are mature and he is not. You can't be in a partnership with someone who is not your equal. It sounds like you have your **** together and he needs some time to figure himself out. It doesn't make him a bad person, while it might make him a lazy person. It sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do before you could have a healthy relationship with him and that is not going to happen with you paying his bills and enabling his lazy lifestyle. Let him go so he can live up to his potential and you can live your life without dragging his lazy butt around with you.

Maybe he would be perfect for you once he gets himself together but for now it sounds like he is using you. Let him go and get himself together with out you and start fresh once he does.

08-20-2009, 06:57 PM	#4 (permalink)
mrs. lady Registered User Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 7	Re: Unemployed husband and I’m depressed Um, I don't know what that you are negative he is positive crap is. It sounds like you are mature and he is not. You can't be in a partnership with someone who is not your equal. It sounds like you have your **** together and he needs some time to figure himself out. It doesn't make him a bad person, while it might make him a lazy person. It sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do before you could have a healthy relationship with him and that is not going to happen with you paying his bills and enabling his lazy lifestyle. Let him go so he can live up to his potential and you can live your life without dragging his lazy butt around with you. Maybe he would be perfect for you once he gets himself together but for now it sounds like he is using you. Let him go and get himself together with out you and start fresh once he does.