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confusedinTX · 05-09-2008, 08:58 AM

I agree with them in that only you can decide when it is over but it almost sounds like you are waiting for her to leave. It may be she is pushing you away so you will leave. I read this thing about seperation that said the person who leaves has a lot of guilt which you can see in your post and maybe she wants you to be the ond to end it so she can avoid that guilt.

Something my frineds have recommended for me is to set up counseling and tell my husband. If he comes great and if not it will give me a chance to talk out my issues and try to find out what I want to do from there. That might help you. I also read that sometimes it helps to have professional help even if you know it is over to help navigate the divore. I wish you luck and my heart goes out to you. Trying to figure out if your marriage is over is a horrible question to have to ask yourself.

05-09-2008, 08:58 AM	#5 (permalink)
confusedinTX Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 23	Re: When do you finally give up? I agree with them in that only you can decide when it is over but it almost sounds like you are waiting for her to leave. It may be she is pushing you away so you will leave. I read this thing about seperation that said the person who leaves has a lot of guilt which you can see in your post and maybe she wants you to be the ond to end it so she can avoid that guilt. Something my frineds have recommended for me is to set up counseling and tell my husband. If he comes great and if not it will give me a chance to talk out my issues and try to find out what I want to do from there. That might help you. I also read that sometimes it helps to have professional help even if you know it is over to help navigate the divore. I wish you luck and my heart goes out to you. Trying to figure out if your marriage is over is a horrible question to have to ask yourself.