| | Re: I dont get it
I'm not saying this applies to your cases daffodilly or kag123, but I know that it can be hard for me to understand when my fiancee is in the mood. Sometimes she'll get flirty and show me some signs that maybe she's in the mood, only to find out nope, not in the mood.
There's nothing wrong with it, and I'm glad she does because she's not a tease and we have regular sex so I don't have to wait long (maybe a day or two) before we have sex. I'm just saying that as a guy who pretty much means it each and every time I get a bit flirty, that if it's hard to judge if your women is in the mood or not, sometimes you just stop tryiong and find it easier to wait until she comes asking. When you ask for sex, or 'make a move' or whatever and get turned down, it hurts a bit. Sometimes it's easier to just not risk rejection and wait for her to come after you.
Also, as another point, sometimes women's signals change I've found. My current fiancee used to mean it's go time if she would say give me a quick grab of my penis when I had pants on, like say in the kitchen or outside. That was the signal that the next time there was a free moment, head for the bedroom. Now, she still does that but doesn't always mean head for the bedroom. So instead of the confusion, many times I'll just sit back and let her inform me if she's in the mood or not.