Originally Posted by daffodilly
He has made an effort to improve, but it's still me that initiates most of the time. The sex is great, but it's the one thing I'd really like to change...a girl likes to be pursued sometimes
I hear ya. --Not necessarily applicable to the OP or yourself, but sometimes it takes two to improve. Mercy sex feels like speaking publicly in front of an audience who are all diddling with their cell phones. Who would want to initiate that?
On the flip side of the coin, how do you initiate with a woman who throws her things on the floor and jumps you as soon as she walks through the door?