nikki4384

I am currently in a similar situation. we have 2 kids and he's admitted to cheating once. he doesn't work and then acts like I'm wrong for nagging him to help. I am at my last straw, I asked him today if he still wanted to be in the relationship, he said i don't know. So now I'm like ok, what do I do? But I completely understand. I too like to speak my mind and do not believe in cheating. When we got together I told him, don't cheat, if you want to be with someone else tell me and we can go our seperate ways. I love him, but I can't keep on stressing and being depressed like this. It's too hard, and it is not good for the kids. I know it seems hard, but if it did get to your situation (which is not much worse than mine) I would leave. I'm thinking about doing that now. Atleast tell him "look i don't know is not good enough, I need a yes or no, to are you going to change your ways and try to make this work" And until he has an answer for me I'm gone. Don't know if it would work for you, but I hope things get better for you. you can message me if you want to talk.