nikki4384

That article is good, thank you. He definatly is automatically defensive. All I have to do is ask a question like "what are you doing?" and Automatically I get " why you asking me allthese questions, your not my mama, i don't have to answer to you!" And it's hard for me to blame him because his family is about as disfunctional as they come. He was mainly raised by his grandma because his dad has been in jail his whole life and his mom is extremly unstable (mentally, emotionally, financially, etc...). I found out recently that's why he hasn't asked me to marry him yet, because everyone in his family that gets married gets divorced and hates eachother. But at the same time, I was raised that no matter what or where you come from, YOU make your own life. His mom now, sits there and makes excuses for his behavior with "well he never had a father figure, or anyone to teach him the right way" but at some point, to me, you have to take responsibility for your own life and make what you want out of it.