nikki4384

I know that he has had a really hard life, and I feel for him, that is why I've put up with it for so long. And I've told him " Iknow you have potential to be great, you just have to figure out what it is that you want to do and do it" but it's like it falls on deaf ears. And his mom is really a bunch of the problem. She is basicaly trying to make up for not being there for him when he was little, so now she trys to do EVERYTHING for him. If we move she moves to the same place, she gives him money, cooks for him everyday, and basically treats him like the 5 year old she missed out on. Which has turned him into a 5 yr old again. I mean even on my birthday, she got me a card and signed his name because she knew he wouldn't remember. Which is nice, but she needs to let him handlehis own business, or he never will. And then at the same time she does all this for him, she tears him down like nothing I've ever seen before. Just last week, he came back from his mom's bawling. Because she had basically put him down and told him everybody, including me would be better off with out him. She has fought him, called the cops on him, stolen from him (used to be a crackhead, possibly still is), and even stabbed him when he was 14 (a BF of hers was beating on her and he jumped in to help her, so she cut him for trying to fight her BF). So basiclly I am trying to make something normal out of a VERY abnormal situation. Lord give me strength!!!