Verushkita

thank you to highwood for making the request from iheartlife.

and to iheartlife, you are amazing! thank you for sharing. your resolve to protect what is yours is admirable. your FWH better recognize what a remarkable wife he has in you.

i can relate to so many things of what you say especially....how bad things were and the feeling that the current state of your marriage back then contributed to the affair.

in my case, i think i caught a budding EA and was able to nix it, but i still feel very betrayed. i don't have concrete evidence of any other indiscretions but because i gave my husband so much space and liberties that now all i can do is wonder about all the times he stayed out so late and came home so drunk.

one of these days i'll share mine, i'm just not ready. we are working through our issues are on the road to recovery, we see a MC but we haven't gone in about 3 weeks now. time to schedule another appointment for us.