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confusedinTX · 05-09-2008, 10:57 PM

If you can't live without sex and you TRY to fix the issue with your spouse and still nothing it is time to make the call....live without the wife or sex. Not get a girlfriend who it doesn't sound like you love whie enjoying someone cooking and cleaning for you. Eat out and get a maid.

More then all that though is you are going to be a father.....the BABY needs to be first. What happens if the baby gets really sick and your wife can't find you because you are off with the girlfriend? Could you forgive yourself if something happened while you were hitting the sheets with another woman? Be a man and get over yourself....there is a little person who needs you to be a good dad whether that is cutting out the cheating or leaving your wife and just beinga good dad. Cheating always comes out and it would be better for your wife to have a chance at a life with a husband who won't cheat on her. The babies happiness is very much tied to the moms so keep that in mind.

05-09-2008, 10:57 PM	#51 (permalink)
confusedinTX Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 23	Re: Should I tell my girlfriend my wife is pregnant? If you can't live without sex and you TRY to fix the issue with your spouse and still nothing it is time to make the call....live without the wife or sex. Not get a girlfriend who it doesn't sound like you love whie enjoying someone cooking and cleaning for you. Eat out and get a maid. More then all that though is you are going to be a father.....the BABY needs to be first. What happens if the baby gets really sick and your wife can't find you because you are off with the girlfriend? Could you forgive yourself if something happened while you were hitting the sheets with another woman? Be a man and get over yourself....there is a little person who needs you to be a good dad whether that is cutting out the cheating or leaving your wife and just beinga good dad. Cheating always comes out and it would be better for your wife to have a chance at a life with a husband who won't cheat on her. The babies happiness is very much tied to the moms so keep that in mind.