trish_n_s

I'm sorry you're going through all that! I understand how frustrating sex can be when only one person is enjoying it. Have you noticed your husband looking at porn or just trying to talk to other women? If you have confronted him and he's said he'd change and he's not doing anything to change I don't think he will. You can't change who he is or what he does he has to want to change. The hard part is, knowing if he's telling the truth and he really is going to change or if he's telling you he's going to change just to keep you around. You should be HAPPY and if being with him doesn't make you happy there isn't any reason you should stay.
Just like any other relationship you've had, it's always hard to imagine your life without your man. It hurts to think of your man dating or being with another woman. It hurts to come home and know that you can't see him anymore. ALL of that will hurt because a part of you does love him...BUT if the bad out weighs the good and you're unhappy more then happy you need to put all those thoughts behind you and just know that you can get over it. Just like all the xboyfriends in the past. It was hard at first but things get better with time.

Don't know if I helped any, just thought I'd share some thoughts. Good luck with everything!