Originally Posted by so_confused09
I am the one who has to take care of things financially with just about no help from my husband.
He has a job and isnt making enough money to support the family! I have to pay all the bills.
Mine you, we also have 2 kids in the house and he has 2 outside of the house.
I have to drop him off to work, pick him up from work, be the career woman, be the mommy and the wife.
Did you enter the marriage with all those things going on?
His low paying job, his kids by a previous marriage,
his lack of transportation.
If some of these things are due to his being laid off from a good paying job, they are temporary and you have to just bear it...
as many people have periods in life that are very difficult.
If these things were present when you married him...
I don't know what you expect to be different now that your married.
Love does not conquer all.