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I don't think so. Usually when men find a woman with qualities they desire, "she's a keeper". I think it's only women who get turned off when they're treated too nicely (someone needs to explain that one to me!) I certainly haven't heard of any man complaining that his wife is "too nice" to him. Maybe if the wife has a high drive and the husband doesn't, then I can see where resentment may arise, but as a general rule, we usually don't grow to resent comforting qualities in a woman.