| | Re: Has anyone???
With great power comes great responsibility.
You know this and you're afraid he'll drop the ball on the responsibility part.
Don't say a thing. Just go with it. You need to have the faith in his capacity to be responsibility that will come from you allowing him to be responsible, and him being responsible. You'd diminish that if you say a word. He is asking to do this because he believes he can be responsible enough, and he wants to show you.
If he ****s up after the month is over, well - you guys need more help.
If you **** up and try to take control when it's his, apologize and say you were naughty. If he forgets that you're inviting him to step up you could ask him what he's going to do about it.
The thread linked below is about as close as I get to my story, it has my posts about the point where I turned my marriage around and on the day my wife was planning to move out, instead we started a new beginning. I've been keeping my updates in this thead as well: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/general...-sex-life.html