I can see why some women have low drives. The reasons are numerous and I understand each one - particularly the "lack of attention" one. Instead of shutting down like some women, I seek affection and attention in other ways - such as through intimacy. Sometimes it's the only time I get his one on one attention. I don't need things to be absolutely perfect, although I realize some women are distracted by unfinished and unrelated business. I never have sex for the physical pleasure, as that would be a high expectation for me - rather, I choose to focus on the time I'm spending with him exploring each other.
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