| | Re: Does my husband have feelings for her? Or am I just a horrible person?
I tend to agree with DCRIM. However, I understand that fact of "every second" being a bit much. What if you stepped in and did something with the two of you. Build a relationship with her. She is going through a rough time and show her your good, caring side. The kind of caring that you would show any human being for this kind of trauma.
This my alleviate some of your husbands feeling to help her. If he knows that you are helping, then he may end up backing off a little.