Originally Posted by LadyFrogFlyAway
I don't know. If you figure it out please tell me. I'd be gnawing through a steel pipe.
I can't say I've figured it out, but like i said, it appears from what I read on this forum that sexual desire is totally different for men and women. It appears men are more visual, while women need more emotional things to be aroused; therefore, if their husband gets grumpy or slacks off on his communication skills, it greatly decreases a woman's desire. Apparently that's not the case for the ones who have responded here, which is what i was wondering, but it appears like it's that way for many.
When I hear it said that some women look at sex as a chore, I wonder how something so pleasurable and fun could be a chore.