I can't imagine not feeling like sex, it is part of who I am, from a teenager through to now,age 50. I went some years between two marriages with no sex and it nearly drove me insane. There is an almost constant driving need in me. I don't 'get' LD women, I can't imagine not having that need. Certainly if my H and I are having problems we might not have sex a couple days, but I still feel like it.
Being in a loving relationship now and having that emotional connect makes sex the best and most intense I've ever experienced. Without that emotional connection as it was mostly with my first marriage, sex wasn't great but I still wanted it.
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Originally Posted by southbound  There are a ton of threads here from husbands who are frustrated because their wife has a low sex drive, and I'm sure this has been answered somewhat in response to the LD threads, but what about the women here who enjoy frequent, spicy sex with their husband. Is it something that just seems normal for you and you never gave it much thought, or does it take a lot of relationship work to do it? Do you ever wonder why some women have low drives, or does it make perfect sense to you? Do you feel your husband has shortcomings but it just doesn't bother you enough to decrease your drive like it would some women, or is your husband just great at being great and, therefore, it keeps your drive going. Could you have sex just for the physical enjoyment, or are there always emotional needs that need to be met?
Whew! I know that is a lot of questions, but I'm just trying to add wrinkles to my brain when it comes to relationships. |
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