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Originally Posted by MAgirl
I have been married for 3 years and we were together for 3 years prior. We have 2 small children together, and we get along pretty good. We are a young couple... The problem:
I feel like we are going in different directions. He just got a motorcycle and its a whole new world.. He wants to go on bike rallies and I'm just not interested... I ride w/ him occasionally, but the fact is I do it to try to meet in the middle... he does things I want to do too, but I feel like with him buying this bike has opened a whole new set of issues.... We dont get a babysitter alot, and when we do, he wants to go on bike rallies... I told him I wasnt going to go , now hes not going to go and is miserable.. But im tired of going on rides all the time when we have a babysitter
I am in college and I want to keep going and going.. I"m scared that getting my college degree and keep getting more degrees will even put us on different paths...
Am I just being a baby??
Thanks
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You aren't being a baby. You are examining reality.
It could very well be that the two of you are going in different directions. If you cannot continue on his path, your wisest choice is to get your college education so that you can have a decent life, should you decide to end your relationship.