Originally Posted by Adament
Also a further question. Since she says that she is leaning toward working things out with me and making our marriage last, but she needs to figure a few more things out before she will be able to do that; do I try to help? Or is me trying to help her figure these things out me taking control again? If i should try and help then how do i go about it with letting her lead it and me following along?
Try, "I understand. Let me know if there's anything I can do."