Originally Posted by southbound

She was on the pill, which "I've heard can affect drive. She was on it shortly before we married. The doctor actually put her on it because she had such a rough time every month and he thought it would ease that. So, she was on the pill our entire 18 year marriage.

Some women even told her that being on it so long could be affecting her so much that it was even changing how she viewed things and, thus, making a divorce seem like what she wanted. One lady told her that she went through a stage where she had no desire for her husband at all, not sexually or otherwise. She said she went off the pill, and in about two months she was starting to feel like her old self again. But my x didn't want to believe it. This lady begged her to get off the pill and just "try it," see if it makes a difference, but she wasn't interested.